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What do religious leaders engage in during their spare time? Last week, I ventured with a couple of friends, both fellow pastors, to see the recently released movie titled I Swear. From its preview, I understood which the film was about a man experiencing Tourette's. What the author had not realize was that it depicted a true-life figure: the subject, who was featured in a 1989 program who later earned an MBE in recognition of his work to inform people about the condition and support others with TS.

Learning About Tourette Syndrome

Prior to this documentary, many individuals had never known about the condition. Nearly 40 years later, people sort of recognizes the basics, yet it is often treated as a punchline – especially in the comedy circuit.

From the teaser, it was evident which the production was going to try to balance through simultaneously capitalising on the obvious comic potential of someone yelling socially awkward phrases at unexpected moments and working to further Davidson’s work in educating the public in a tactful and considerate way. It is hoped it’s not a spoiler to state it succeeded on both counts – however obviously I only knew that after watching.

An Unexpected Theater Incident

As the movie commenced, a youth seated ahead nearby suddenly yelled a series of curse words. Initially, it appeared this was a gag – albeit a joke in very poor taste. But, it was soon evident that this was a real-life person with Tourette syndrome: a teenager accompanied by his father.

While the story progressed, so did the boy – and there was no apparent response by either the parent nor anyone among the viewers. I felt slightly torn. Obviously, it was a big deal for the boy and his father to watch the undoubtedly very tough daily reality portrayed in cinema, so I was pleased that they received this experience. But was it fair that we and everyone else in the theater could barely understand the audio because of this? Could the venue have been able to put on a dedicated session – like several theaters frequently offer for individuals with special needs usually?

A Moral Conflict

I feel embarrassed to say that I genuinely thought about raising the issue – however, not to the parent himself (I am no a monster), instead to staff at the venue. Yet, both of the author's obviously more charitable colleagues seemed to have resigned themselves with the events. Moreover, I recalled there was an admittedly fictional incident from the TV series where a character's Andy Millman protests about a child causing a disturbance during a meal, ignorant which he has a genetic condition. He faced backlash the subsequent negative attention – and my objection could have been even more inappropriate because I understood the boy literally couldn’t help it.

An Eye-Opening Awakening

Fortunately, my compassion prevailed and an amazing thing happened over the next film duration. First, I simply adapted to the initially distracting sounds. Then, when the film approached its conclusion and we saw the profoundly empowering impact which the protagonist's support groups offered on many participants, I experienced humbled and very privileged to share this time with those who had real experience not just portrayed on screen – even though the lead actor's performance in the role was excellent , to this writer, award-worthy.

There have been similar experiences in the cinema previously – watching The King’s Speech with a friend with a speech impediment and his language pathologist wife, alternatively meeting former servicemen of the Normandy landings in the lobby after Saving Private Ryan – but this was in a different league. It was like a 4D screening, but instead of the chairs moving about and water mists hitting you in the face, the characters were right alongside saying, “This isn’t just a movie. It’s my reality.” Then swearing. Spunk for milk.

An Uplifting Conclusion

So I refrained from objecting. As the movie concluded, I even went and thanked Joe – who was 14 – along with Mark, guardian, for the honor of being there, which without a doubt made our experience even more profound than it would have been. Afterwards talked for a while and took a selfie together – during which we all exclaimed a curse alongside the young man.

Closing Insights

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